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What would you guys do in this situation?

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slammed88cutlass   +1y
Ok so i've been dating this chick for like 7 months. Most of the relationship has been awesome and shes even into the car scene (something none of my old girls ever were). Shes got a kid that she is super good with and shes in school and doing well. So I really like her alot. But the problem is the childs father is about to get out of jail on the 15th and hes obviously not happy that someone else is dating his old chick. He was put in jail because of something relating to the child so its a super sensitive subject for my girl. Also in the last few weeks shes just being intolerable because she knows he is gonna be a royal asshole as soon as he is out so she is totally taking it out on me (starting stupid fights,refusing to have sex alot more,bitching about me not being there when i'm out with my friends, all of which she never did before at all). What do you guys think? Stick it out and risk getting shit on by her and having some big motherfucker after me, or should i just call it quits? This is my first relationship that lasted over a month (i've always been pretty content with fucking random chicks), so i dont really know what to do. Anyone got some advice?
thatsmydawg   +1y
if you liked her so much id stick around th eguys in jail how long has he been in there for? and if sh elikes you that much shell stick with you and just man it up and deal wiuth her crap for a lil bit till he gets out and if he says anythign your the man now and he cant do anytign about it
CHOSN1   +1y
If you like her and she is worth fighting for, talk with her and ask her how you can help. By all means, don't fight with her. She is obviously going through alot of stuff right now and you fighting with her will probably be a bad thing. If she doesn't respond to helpfullness, maybe it is time you moved on. If she loves you and she sees that you are willing to help, she will notice. You have to figure that out by yourself though. But one thing i have learned is when a woman is an emotional wreck, don't fight with her.
slammed88cutlass   +1y
He has been in jail for a year and is extremely lucky he didnt serve his 4 year sentence. i dont even know how he only got a year for what he did. i've been trying my best to help her with school and have been understanding about the situation. But sometimes it seems like i cant do anything right in her eyes. I've been busting my ass to help her and it is slowing down progress on the car and is starting to piss my friends off cause i'm not around nearly as much. Its just hard to judge what to do i guess. Just seems like everyone is pissed at me and all i'm trying to do is help her. It sucks so bad because she was so damn good to me before and now that this comes up and (wasnt supposed to be an issue for at least two years) it feels like i'm getting the carpet pulled out from under me.
dakotamike   +1y
fight him im sure he will be on probation beat his ass and put him back in jail for a violation then you possible have another year or too .......... lol no thats wrong but if it comes down to it do it
1STUNTA   +1y
broes before hoes...dont lose your friends over some bitch...give her some space...if you really love her let her know you wont let the deuchebag thats getting out of jail fuck with her again...beat his ass and let him know whats up...simple enough
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