TwistedMinis
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Like he said, you want the single pivot of a 3-link, or the narrow end of a 4-link on the frame side. It keeps your instant center in the same spot throughout travel and makes for a more consistent suspension system.
As far as thickness of material, I rarely use any thicker than .120 wall tubing. I use a combination of 1" 1.25" 1.5" and 1.75" tubing for cross members, bag mounts, link bars, etc. The only time I use anything 1/4" is for link tabs and balljoint plates. Everything else is .120.