I'm going to be using 12point ss bolts for my frame... but i had the same problem when i was looking for ss-bolts, and also heard that they were not as strong as a grade-8 bolt (which some are only as strong as a grade 2, but high strenght ss bolt are available and expensive), i have come accross several places that have either grade-8 ss bolts or better. ALLOYBOLTZ.COM has bolt from ARP that are grade-8 stainless, heres the link
http://alloyboltz.com/catalog/index.php?cPath=48_51 i could be wrong, but then again i think i can trust these companies and then wish for the best totallystainless.com also offers grade 8 or higher stainless steel bolts, and i quote "We have an extensive line of high strength stainless as strong or stronger than US grade 8."
http://www.totallystainless.com/totallystainless.htm http://
www.totallystainless.com/yoursafety.htm it woulnd't hurt to do a little more reasearch, but i hope this helps