It's over

Well I've had a rough past couple weeks. Problems at work,financial problems,car problems and then to top it all off,the girlfriend that I had who seemed too good to be true really was. Mikey's a single man again,but I'm really bummed. I loved this girl to death,but some things came up that we couldn't work out and,well...it went the way I didn't want it to go.

The last time I saw her,I kissed her goodbye and told her I loved her,and the last time I talked to her I basically told her to go fuck herself and that she just threw everything away.

Obviously not meant to be. I hate myself for what I just said to her and it'll never be fixed and I will regret this day for the rest of my life.

But hey,life goes on and tomorrow is a new day and a fresh start.

i've been there in your same shoes before with me and my girl. needless to say we are back together and happy as hell. just hang in there and dont do things spur of the moment. if its meant to be then it will be if it isnt then you'll move on.



-justin

no no,the things we did and said are unforgivable. We just scarred each other deeply. I feel so bad. I hurt someone SO bad that I loved SO much. Why do things like this have to happen? I feel like a monster.

Sorry to hear you couldn't work thing out. Love can definately be a bitch (and no, I'm not talkin about her). With luck the bleeding will stop soon, and you will move on. Time can heal many wounds, but for some, wel you get the idea. Best of luck with the truck and life!

The bleeding will stop but the scar will last forever.

The truck is on track,and life is back to 'normal' for the time being.

man you shouldnt give up..she is only human and you are only human. If you really love her, then bust your ass until things are right... When i was battleing with my cocaine addiction, everything feel apart for me including my relationship with my girlfriend..but i got clean and then worked as hard as i could to get her back... needless to say, wedding is set for summer 2008.. You can do it

Seriously,this is beyond repair. She sent me an email telling me that what we both did and said is unforgivable and that she doesn't want anything to do with me and it's best we both let it go so we don't get hurt again.

It really hurts...we had it all...I was planning to move up there with her,we were even planning to get engaged after I moved and then this happens...Somehow the train got derailed and ended up with a big firery explosion.

Her best friend is sympathetic towards me and my side,but she's also angry with me for what I said and for what happened and even she says I don't deserve to have her back.

That hurts when the best friend doesn't approve.

Hey man,

If it just happened today, things will be sucky for a bit, but don't give up so quick.

I just, actually had the exact same thing happen to me about a month ago. Me and my girlfriend got into a big arguement and I was tired of always argueing and told her I couldn't believe her when she would say we wouldn't argue anymore just because of past things. Etc* and it got to the point where it was "Move on" or "Try again", and I had wanted some time apart untill it clicked again that I really missed her, and in that time, she decided to try and move on, and started hanging out with a guy and it really, really sucked hearing she was hanging out with this guy, and thats when it really clicked how much I missed her and wanted to be back together. I ended up trying to talk to her about things and how I felt about her and not wanting her to get into anything to quick and getting hurt etc*, well, she ended up finding out the guy only wanted to get into bed with her, and luckily she hadn't gotten together with him so she didn't get hurt.

So think about it, if you guys have a bit of time apart, well, you obviously already miss her, and if she's saying its "unforgivable", she may not realize it now, but give her some time and it will come to her that she will want to try and work things out and she will try to talk to you about it and what not.

Things willl be rough for a few days, weeks or what ever the case may be, but things will either work out for the good, or, you'll eventually move on and find somebody else.

Just think, you'll have extra time to work on the truck, or go to work and put in some more time and get a bit of extra cash. Don't sit around at home bringing yourself down meng, not good for ya. I did that the first time my girlfriend and I broke up, and within the first weekend I lost 13lbs, it's not cool.

Get out in the garage and work on the truck

no reason to get upset over women.... women dominate men in north america.... something like 4 to 1.... plenty of girls out there, like you said it was to good to be true.... don't waste your time being upset over some dumb broad that screwed you over like that.... move on..... lifes to short to live down and depressed exspecially over women because of the above fact... best of luck man and i feel your pain but move on live life to the fullest its the only chance you get at life.....