Sorry for the late response, I seemed to have posted a solution that I didn't completely read through... sorry about that, the wire you have to ground out to get the codes to flash is the green test connector on the passenger side engine bay near the firewall, I believe it is the same connector that you have to ground to set proper timing on EFI engines.
here is a quick diagram of it.
Make sure the engine is warmed up before you test it.
CHECKING CODES
1. Using jumper wire, ground (Green) 1-pin connector. Connector is located above right side front wheel well.
2. With ignition on and engine stopped, observe "CHECK ENGINE" or MIL light. Note trouble codes. Check TROUBLE CODE IDENTIFICATION table for possible cause. If light remains on continuously, MIL light circuit is grounded or ECU is defective. If "CHECK ENGINE" or MIL light light is not flashing, no codes stored
CLEARING CODES
1. Disconnect negative battery cable. Depress brake pedal for at least 5 seconds. Reconnect battery cable.
2. Ground test connector with jumper wire. Turn ignition on, but do not start engine for 6 seconds.
3. Start engine and run at 2000 RPM for 2 minutes. Verify no codes are displayed.
If the MIL stays on and no DTC are available, unplug the ECU and turn ignition switch ON. If the MIL is still showing, you need to check for shorting(grounded wire) from instrument panel to ECU, Yellow/White (OR LT Green/White) wire.