Relationship Curiousity....

everytime i look at this it makes me laugh...sorry i know it might be srious and all but its funny how a girl comes on this site to sk a bunch of minitruck guys for relationshp help, not saying none of you dont have good advice. the idea of the whole thing is just kinda funny.

Completely agree. Don't expect us guys to be all emotional and explaining them to you - most of us aren't able to do it.

^^ very true

but yea raheem, that was deep haha


you know though, guys will show love in different ways tiff...there are guys out there that just aren't the romantic type, doesn't mean they dont love you, they just cant think of shit, like me hahaha

it's also hard to describe how a guy should be when he loves you and you should know if you are in love, if you can look at that guy and really see something other than materials and his penis, then there is something there....also the way i see it, just because you are in love at one point does not mean you will be together forever...ppl's surroundings affect a lot of stuff, and sometimes it interferes with relationships, thus causing love to fade away

me and my girl have been together for 4.5years, im not romantic in any way, a date for me consist of a movie and dinner..none of that walk in the park under a starstruck sky and beautiful moon stuff..i guess im a very simple guy....but she knows i love her, so i guess im doing something right haha

That's true too...don't belive much of what we tell you. We'll tell you everythign and anything, espically if we think we'll get some as a result.....pay attention more to what we do.

I never asked for you to be emotional. I was asking how to tell. maybe an example of how shitty or how great you treat your girlfriend would have been nice!

I dont expect you all to be like well if he says your name 3 times in a day at this hour, he loves you. I want to know ways that you guys show it.

Example:
I open the car door for her.
I call her to say I love you at random times.
I call her a bitch and she loves it.

that kind of stuff so dont think I was looking for some emotional/personal answer just simple things you guys to do let her know.

Twanksta- funny huh? well you guys post relationship stuff too and its not funny. Its helpful for me (the only girl on this site I think) to ask a bunch of guys for guy advice/opinions. Its interesting to see some responces. Some are very wise in what they say and makes you think twice, others you can tell know nothing....

P.S. I know everyones different thats I asked!

yea man i completely agree. you know someone loves you when that person does that for you. i know i have done that for someone

Interesting <~ the most I can say being that hes a member of this site!

That's basically is waht I was trying to say, kinda, i just couldn't make it make sense like that

yeah i was just gonna say any guy that makes any sort of change or sacrifice no matter how small or big. it shows. most self centered unloving guys just don't give a shit and will be the "just deal with it type" I know I've changed or tried to change some things about myself or in my life for my girl. I just wouldn't do that for anyone else.

Well... I guess its about time i chime in on this thread since it is fairly obvious its about me huh? Warning guys I am rambling here and might bore you..

1st of all, i duno how the poop thing would work out cuz 1, I work at a hospital and smell it all day long so smelling hers might remind me more or work then love and 2, Im lucky to be able to give Tiff a lil slap on the ass for laughs

2nd, If you, Tiff dont know how or what I feel or think of us then your pretty blind or think i'm a hell of an actor and need to start a career in acting?

3rd, In my experience and my guidance of other people thru relationship issues male or female I've noticed its more of how the person acts towards their partner, Some remember special dates, go out of their way to do little things they wouldnt have been expecting or are justa gentleman, sweetheart, caring person as your suppossed to be towards someone you care about in that way.

4th, If he tells you he loves you more then just during sex or after you say it first may just be another sign.

5th, There is a difference between loving someon and being in love with somebody. You can love anybody, i love my parents, family, and close friends cuz i know they will do anything for me and in return they know i'll do anything for them. Being in love with someone is a big step in a relationship I feel that will show somebody your willing to do whatever it takes and everything in your power to make them happy and be there as a partner in life kinda thing.

6th(yes i know i'm rambling), To know if somebody is in love with you, I feel you'd feel it, you cant have anybody else tell you that someone is in love with you from what they see, if they are telling you that, they see how mucht hat person must care which i'm not saying doesnt show they r in love with you.

7th, Tiff in this period of time we have been together and what not if you dont see, underatnd or trust how i feel for you then i guess i'm wasting my time, or maybe you will finally realize things when I come 'home' in October and we can spend a lot more then a few days a month together and a lot less time on the phone! I hope you enjoyed your visits to Ohio and my visits down to Florida! Well I guess i'm done with this thread and hope i cleared things up for you Tiff and we'll see how things go when i get there... no doubts that anything will go wrong or be bad about getting this apartment and all this stuff... just wait and see. Love you Goober







ya sorry again for rambling on guys and boring any of you if you actually read all this post... Tiff if you dont read this whole thing i'm gonna kick u in the knee cap.