kam
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I wouldn't screw with the relay boxes, Just put the diodes with the lights.
The question that needs to be answered though is if the headlights are switched on the negative or positive sides, and this would change how the diodes are positioned.
The easy way to do this is take a multimeter to the lights, and figure out what pins do what, then place the diodes where they need to be, in the appropriate direction. (arrow indicates flow from High to Low. )
Be sure to get some hefty hefty diodes. 6amps *should* work. If you are anywhere near the st louis area, I know some stores that will carry exactly what you need. Otherwise, just try and find electronics surplus stores, they carry better stuff for lower $$$