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I just wanted to clear up some things, the system has changed. Soon, hopefully tonight messages will be consolidated by user, so you won't have to search for individual messages you've sent back and forth to another member, they will be all in one spot.
Cusser - I believe once the messages are consolidated it will be easier to use. On other pages on the site other than the forums it does indicate when you have unread messages. Sorry for the inconvenience, it's just part of moving the site off of phpbb.
When you say "And now I'm getting an E-mail to my home E-mail instead" I'm not sure what you mean.
Dan - You can send a message to someone with out friend requesting them. Up slightly and to the right where it says "You must be friends with member to see their information", click where it says Send Message. That's all you need to do.