Well Tiger there is half your problem...you have to become uninvisible for people to know you are on then they might talk to you, but if they dont know your there thats prolly why you dont get many ims! Just a thought though!
I have yahoo too and I never use mine either. Its funner and its so much more advanced but I never use it cause no one else does and my mailbox is always full of spam so I dont use that either. oh well so here I am talking on a forum instead of aim or yahoo.....he he he