I have an 84 toyota and i have a pulled leaf in the back with 3" blocks and when my fat friend sits in the truck it rubs the cross member under the body.
can I cut this sucker out / and or some of it, or is that bad news?
if your talking about the cross member that bolts to the bottom of the frame yes you can get rid of it. but if your talking about the trans X-member then you can pick up a new one that is raised from twistedminis.com or candospecialties.com
Don't cut it out completely if you don't plan on replacing it. But you can notch the center. I have done this with a piece of 5" 1/4" wall tubing.