Quick update, from looking around it seems like this is the most raggedy truck around here, lots of cool stuff being done by other members!
MT-90 in the transmission and synthetic 75-90w in the rear differential has made a clear difference in shift smoothness and driveability, especially in cold weather. I took the visor off the truck, it is much quieter now at 50+. That thing made a huge amount of wind noise. If anyone is looking for one I'd part with it. Lund pn 12088. The newest addition to safety and driving confidence is the pair of 55w driving lights I added. $10 harbor freight special is the same light as Hella's economy line. I'll probably grab a couple 100w bulbs for better output but I like that they are street legal now. I made a couple quick brackets out of 2"x10"x1/8" steel, they are secured with one bolt thru the bottom of the bumper, valence, and bumper mount. The switch gets 12v from the cigarette lighter, which it uses to close a relay that feeds the lights straight from the battery.
A couple snaps
I also have a set of 4 Monroe OESpectrum light truck shocks on the way, I did some research and the oespectrum line is a new design and is backed by a lifetime warranty. Right now the back end wants to wander around on rough roads.