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Edited: 5/15/2008 12:21:36 PM by Russ-D
I had this saaame dilemma.
In 2001 I worked at an aircraft mod center in avionics. I took the job because it was comparable pay to my previous job in a 40 hr week instead of 65, which is what I was averaging. Everything was great, for 3 weeks. Then the mandatory overtime that "never happens" happened. we went to 10's, then 12's, the weekends too!
When I complained, my boss didnt understand. "the money is great" was his comment, "get it while you can". Meanwhile, I noticed that all the engineers got there 3 hours after I did, got longer lunches, and left an hour before me. They got to hang out in the AC all day too, drinking coffee while I sweated my ass off in a plane.
So I quit. My boss thought I was crazy. This was July 2001. We all know what happened in September 01. Everyone in my dept lost their job, they went back 7 years in seniority for layoffs, including my boss.
6 years later I graduated with an EE degree and an MBA, and not the stay at home and study in your pjs kind of college, real accredited programs. I got a great job making 2 1/2 times what I used to, and I started at the ground floor, it will only go up.
But by a long shot the best thing I did was not the education. Its nice to make money, dont get me wrong, I'm not an idiot. But I got to spend 6 whole years with my kids. Every summer we would go swimming every single day. On Fridays after school we went to the library and the park. I picked them up from school, taught them math and how to make dinner. That means more than any diploma. We are not well off, it required adjustement to live on just my wifes income, there were a lot of monetary things we didnt have or couldnt get.
Money is an enigma, because you just dont hear anyone ever say they have enough. But I tell you now, when your kids are all grown up, you will wish you had spent more time with them. The extra 2k a month will pale in comparison to what you would give to turn the clock back. The job I have now, I can set my own hours so that I still pick them up every day. And we still go to the library on Fridays. And now Saturday is Dadurday where we do stuff together.
Sorry for the speech.