lalunette
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All right, my favourite topic... beside Mazda trucks, Honda Civic wagons and Tomos mopeds... LOL
I was raised an RC, got married, had 3 kids, got involved in my local church and taught Sunday school for 12 years.
However, I grew more and more disenchanted with church and its hypocrisy. We were teaching the same stuff every 3 years and our priest never let us do anything creative.
Then, I found out my good Christian wife was sleeping around with a boy-toy, neglecting her family but still going to church. Then she left me and our three children for a year to live it up.
Believing in the sanctity of marriage I did everything I could to get her back. We did counselling, etc… and she agreed to come back and live with us, her family.
No sooner was she back in our lives that she threatened to call the cops and charge me with sexual assault if I did not leave the house and agree to a divorce.
Needless to say we separated, got a divorce and, nine years later, she initiated a marriage annulment.
Well, I’ve grown since these events. I’ve dropped the pretense and sham of religion and realized I’ve become a Bright ( ). A Bright is a person who has a naturalistic worldview. A bright's worldview is free of supernatural and mystical elements (such as organized religion) and the ethics and actions of a bright are based on a naturalistic worldview. We are not atheists since that is a label given by religious people to those who reject their god, be it God, Allah, Vishnu, etc…. Since we do not acknowledge the existence of said gods and their associated religion(s) we cannot be labelled as atheists by their members.
I also like what Robert Heinlein has to say about religion : “History does not record anywhere at any time a religion that has any rational basis. Religion is a crutch for people not strong enough to stand up to the unknown without help. But, like dandruff, most people do have a religion and spend time and money on it and seem to derive considerable pleasure from fiddling with it. [Robert Heinlein, Notebooks of Lazarus Long]â€