you don't have to buy 'drop shocks' you can buy whatever size shock you need from any shock company, such as monroe for example. you can get your shock relocators and install them, and measure the extended and colapsed height you'll need and call and special order shocks to fit exactly that size (plus about 1/2 inch on the extend and collapse) or you can buy shocks first, and mount the lower mount to the axle/control arm, and find a place to mount to the frame for the upper mount. i suggest the first option.
you might want to run a different pressure switch for those compressors, as they are rated to 200psi and those slambags are rated at 200psi also.
the difference of a triangulated 4link and a wishbone is simple. the tri 4link has 4 link bars, with 2 (usually the uppers) setup in a triangular shape.
a wishbone has the same or similar 2 lower bars, parallel with the frame rails and the upper bar is a wishbone, like the wishbone in a chicken or turkey...
refer to previously posted picture for triangulated 4link
here's a quick example of a wishbone setup.